Masturbation is far from being an arduous task, and this sexual orientation for your partner can be a titillating experience by itself. That's one of the greatest turn-ons for man to know that he's exciting you. No man has refused a lovely woman displaying her sexual appetite, but some men do not like it. It's a personal preference, so if you like to add this to your sexual repertoire, find out if he prefers it.

On the other hand, some women may be uncomfortable about masturbating in front of their partner but once inhibitions are overcome, many have found it coy yet stimulating not only for their partners. It's even better than just watching yourself in the mirror. The better you pleasure yourself, the sexier you'll feel and all the more to entice your partner into your bed. Action speaks louder than words, and soon he'll know just what and how you'd like to be made love to. So get on with this delicious assignment!

Mental Power

Sexual suspense doesn't have to be all-visual. It all begins in the mind. You may want to start by going into juicy details over the phone, or put it on a cassette tape and tell him all about it while you masturbate yourself. This sexy talk is a great mental warm up. Send him lewd emails or letters on how you plan to 'masturbate' for him. It gives him something to think about that will make him hot and hard. Some couples take turns to be 'racy novelist' by writing erotic short stories with you and your partner being the characters. The more you share about your sexual appetite and desires, including fantasies, the more he can learn about pleasing you and that in turn pleases him.

Know Thy Self

The way to masturbate for your partner or share this privilege information with him is to know beforehand where all your sexual switches are and how to turn them on. You need to know yourself, like your body and find out what it can do. If you are not sure about your own body, take time to discover them as you map out your body and explore all the possibilities of your libido. Masturbation does not only develop confidence in yourself and your body; but it's pleasurable and keeps your sex muscles fit and it is the ancient way to find out what really turns you on.

Mapping Out The Erogenous Zone

It is best to be non-judgmental and self-critical whilst exploring your body. It's not necessary to have a perfect body type to enjoy great sex. The objective is self-knowledge. Inspect and imagine every part in action and think of them from a man's point of view. See what happens when you touch yourself, cover every inch and find out what feels better, what's most relaxing and most exciting. Dream about all the secret desires you have and how they can make it feel even better!

Think about what you want him to do to your body. Try it yourself. Watch yourself in the mirror and observe how it looks and makes you feel. Imagine how your partner would see it, feel it and react to it. Think about how delicious it would be when your body is with his, doing all the things you've imagined.

Fantasies

When you know your own sexual preference and desires, you can invite your man to a special showcase and show him how to satisfy them. Nothing turns a man more than watching and feeling a beautiful woman writhe and wriggle with sexual pleasure. You could share one of your fantasies too. This shows that you have an erotic imagination and you are a woman who enjoys thinking about sex and especially with him in mind.

Begin with one of your not so wild or kinky fantasies, just to test the water and depending on his response, you can progress to your more naughty ones. Ask him to share his and he'll be thrilled that you want to make his dreams come true too. Sharing each other's fantasies is an intimate, revealing and erotic act to follow for a relationship.

So be creative and adventurous when you masturbate for him and turn secret fantasies into reality for both you and your partner.